You’ve made it to the third and final portion of our 2021 Guide to Being Single on Valentine’s Day. We’ve covered a few confrontational and comforting ways to process and experience this romantic holiday leading up to our final thoughts and advice on managing the rose-colored Valentine glasses.
Forget About FOMO
If you’ve been single for a minute you’ve probably fallen prey to the “grass is greener” concept–thinking you’d be happier or more complete if you were in a relationship. But life will quickly teach us that the grass is green where you water it. So let Valentine’s Day be a gentle reminder that the FOMO (fear of missing out) is an illusion.
The reality is, relationships are hard work too, and have some serious ups and downs. But the love and significance you show yourself isn’t reserved for specials occasions and requires consistent effort on your part. Much like how you would a relationship with someone else.
You’d never let your partner feel forgotten or unwanted on V-day, so why would you do that to yourself?
Singlehood requires an every day, all day, 24/7 kind of love. Forget about what everyone else is doing and stand in your confidence knowing you’ll attract the right person at the right time. You can and should be experiencing holiday-like self-love year-round
Love in the Palm of Your Hand
If you feel your time is now, there will be hundreds of potential human connections that can be found in the palm of your hand with the Chekmate app. A safe place to be yourself, have meaningful conversations. Discover a dating app that honors your standards and has mastered compatibility.
More than any other day of the year, Valentine’s Day is going to have singles near and far, reaching out for connections–not hookups. Video calls not texts. Consistency not ghosting. A little louder for the people in the back–YOU DESERVE A BETTER DATING APP EXPERIENCE.
Have a Ball (Without a Chain)
Let’s be real. With or without the Chekmare dating app., you won’t be single forever, in fact probably not much longer. So live it up! Enjoy this extra free time to yourself. Watch what you want. Dive into hobbies you keep ignoring. Splurge on your single life.
February 14th wasn’t meant exclusively for couples, and now you have a series of different ways to make this about you, those who are in your life now, and how to choose to feel and experience today in a way that paves the way for your next and best relationship.